is my step dad fair?
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he lived with my mom in july and got married in september. he's such a bitch. I'm a party girl. i like to lap dance on guys and fit 20 people in a 4 person hot tub. My step dad dosent let me have fun. My mom is fun and lets me party. i told my school counsler (after i got off house arrest) and he said that i was lucky to have someone who cares. i was like wtf? not really. i tried to just screw him but it didnt work out. he has 4 kids and the oldest of him was 14 and he has like a fricken comb over. im not gonna lie- i have hot brothers (3 older) and they all have gfs. how do i get ryan to let me be myself? i am pregnant. my bf is 9 months older than me and we r both 17 now. i will NEVER accept ryan (step dad) and will NEVER like him cause hes a jack as*. he called me a whore. i dont care cause i am, but 1. he makes us go 3 mass and he told his kids to light a candle 4 me. How do i live with him?
by the way… I'M A SENIOR.
Taylor,
What more can I say ……..
The bright side is "Your Almost Eighteen" !
Just think how wonderful it will be on your birthday to move out & leave his horrible home and live on your own …. raising your own child with your boyfriend.
Did he give your the parental curse yet?
You know the one …. " I hope your grow up to have kids …just like you" !
Good Luck
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May 3rd, 2009 at 4:21 pm
Sorry, I'm siding with the step-dad, you make poor life choices and then whine when someone tries to help you out? Life is not one big party, although having fun is a good thing, you also have to pay the bills and learn some responsibility.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 4:51 pm
Actually it sounds like your stepdad cares about you more than you care about yourself. I think you need to GROW UP
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May 3rd, 2009 at 5:21 pm
Taylor,
What more can I say ……..
The bright side is "Your Almost Eighteen" !
Just think how wonderful it will be on your birthday to move out & leave his horrible home and live on your own …. raising your own child with your boyfriend.
Did he give your the parental curse yet?
You know the one …. " I hope your grow up to have kids …just like you" !
Good Luck
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May 3rd, 2009 at 5:57 pm
believe it or not..ur step dad is looking out for ur best interest. he wants u to be safe and from the choices u have been making in life so far….it sounds like u don't think about the choices u make before u make them. if u want more freedom and trust from ur stepdad u have to earn it a prove to him that u are maturing. But from what i gather u don't care about ur life….ur throwing it away. I am sorry but i think i have to side with ur stepdad. u remind me a little of myself when i was younger. He is really tring to help u in the only way he knows how. If I were u I would respect him for that b/c i know i didn't accept help from anyone and had to learn the hard way…and believe me….it's not as fun.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 6:13 pm
If your telling the truth, you and your mom have some major issues. It is a parents job to teach their kids responsibility and how to take care of themselves. Sounds like your mom just wants to be a kid and knows nothing about her parental responsibilities.
Ryan sounds like the only sane person in your house, and your not going to listen to him now, but soon, when you have a kid and an STD and no home or job, you'll wish someone like him had always been around to teach you right from wrong.
You need to get your act together, and now.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 6:29 pm
Let me get this straight, you tried to screw him and you think your brothers are hot? It sounds to like you not only need some discipline in your life, but your mother lets you walk all over her. I truly feel sorry for your baby. Seriously.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 7:00 pm
Sounds like your step-dad is trying to help you with your negative thinking. For you to be pregnant and want to party, there is something wrong with that. You are going to need his help raising your child, don't even think that you are going to be able to raise your child all by yourself. You should be ashamed of yourself agreeing with him for call you a whore. Bottom line, you need to change your way of thinking for you and your child, you are only 17. You don't have time to party now, you have a child to raise and i hope that you raise your child with some healthy moral, other than how to party after house arrest. God bless!
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May 3rd, 2009 at 7:45 pm
AH YES more than fair. Your mom got you to do anything you wanted to do she should of put her foot down on your partying a long time ago and maybe just maybe you would be so wild. Don't know how old you are. but to do lap dance on guys. that's not appropriate for teens. I could never imagine my daughter doing that. and to approach your school counsler, You are way out of control.
Dear you really need to do a realiality check with yourself. I'm sorry but you are 17 years old are you still in school? and your pregnant. you don't respect your parents. Oh sorry you do respect your mom cause she lets you party and get wild and have "FUN". are you going to keep the baby cause I'm going to tell you right now that is not going to be fun. Your "fun" is not going to be there any more with a baby i hope and pray that you give that baby to a good home. cause your not ready to have that baby if you plan on partying still.
Well get a job and move out if you can't abide by his rules. and your not even ready to do that since your pregnant. I don't think you have a clue to what married life is and what life is all about. You really need to grow up and face reality of life around you. Your counsler was right you should be thankful that you have someone that cares about your safety and for that baby inside you. change your ways dear. cause when that baby comes you will find out how hard it is. Good luck and I really mean that i will pray for you.
you wanted my opinion and I am not the kind that lies or beats around the bush.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Your counselor is right, you’re lucky to have someone who cares. Someone that isn’t even related to you but that still cares enough about you to try and help you. My mother was fun and let me party when I was 17 yrs old, but she also put her foot down if things got out of hand. She knew when I got into drugs and I wasn’t happy with her for busting me, but you know what, she was and still is a damn good Mom and having fun is one thing, putting yourself in danger is another. I know, I know, danger? But I like it. It’s fun. I like to hang out and party with guys. I like the attention I get…..familiar? You say you’re pregnant, ever heard of condoms? Birth control? You like to lap dance on men, does this mean you do other things too? If so, not only should you be scared that you’re pregnant but you should get checked for STD’s as well. I am already worried for this baby if you are in fact pregnant because this is already a bad environment. Keep in mind, being a parent starts the day you find out you are pregnant. Therefore, if any of the above is still taking place while you are pregnant, (partying, lapdances, going out) then you’re on the path to being a bad parent.
If I were you, I’d try and turn myself around now. So what, maybe church isn’t your thing. It wasn’t mine either. I almost resented my family for forcing me to go but I did it out of respect. That’s KEY here okay? RESPECT your elders! You don’t have to like them, but respect them. They, in turn, will start to show you the same respect. Show them that you can be a good person and you will be a good parent. Ever thought of taking parenting classes with your boyfriend or whoever the father to your child is? It might wake you up to realize that parenthood is NO easy task! You are now a rolemodel for your child. People you bring around this new baby will also reflect the type of parent you are. No partying, no smoking, no drinking, NOTHING of the sort!
If you’re “SO” responsible, why don’t you move out? Do you have a job? Did you graduate high school?
Listen hun, the REAL world isn’t as FUN as you make it out to be. Sure, you can party and do as you please, but part of life, a HUGE part of life is being responsible and taking care of and providing for those that you bring into this world. MOST kids don’t like their parents when they set ground rules. Of course you like your Mom, the one with no rules and lets you do as you please. She’s the easy parent and your stepdad is the opposite. He cares, he wants you to have principles and morals and be a good kid. Nothing wrong with that, it shows he cares!
I’ll tell you what though, if my stepdaughter was acting as you are acting, I’d do EVERYTHING in my power to help her. She can hate me if she wants, but she’ll thank me 5 yrs down the road. Her child would end up in a better environment. I would have peace of mind knowing my little girl and her child are going to be on a better path….
All in all, you need to grow up. You need to respect those around you that are trying to help you. I know it’s not what you want to hear, but it’s the truth. And if you don’t take all the advice given to you know, you’ll wish you did 9 months down the road!
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May 3rd, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Yes, your step dad is fair. You are "out of control", irresponsible and now you are going to not only destroy your life but the life of an innocent unborn human being. That poor baby doesn't have a chance if you can't even live like a human being instead of a slut. You'll end up with AIDS and your baby is going to be left in foster care. You also sound like you are hyped up on drugs.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 8:18 pm
FIRST THINGS FIRST….I GAVE ALLOFTHEM THUMBS DOWN…Who are they to judge you that way. Sure ya have a little fun, who doesn't. Hell sounds like fun to me. Even tho ur at that age where u should be learning to mature alittle qiucker…ur doing what every teen dreams of! Just slow down a bit and take things a lil more seroiusly. By the way YOU TOTALLY ROCK. Your a younger version of me! =]
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Have a star!!!!!!!! My own expeirence.
May 3rd, 2009 at 8:54 pm
In a few months you will be 18 so I suggest if you don't want to live with the rules of the house, then you plan on moving out as soon as possible.
I have to agree with your stepfather on this one. It sounds like you are too wild and making choices that are not good for you in the long run. I also wouldn't want you behaving around my children that way.
Good Luck to you.
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